In the last post I examined how arguments for subjecting prohibitions on same-sex marriage to stricter scrutiny may or may not result in subjecting incest and polygamy prohibitions to higher scrutiny as well. It depended on which arguments were made and how those rights were viewed. Ultimately though, no matter what standard is used, the prohibitons against polygamy, incestuous marriage, and same-sex marriage must all be justified. I will demonstrate here that the first two marital prohibitions may be justified and those reasons do not imply the latter prohibition is justified. That is same-sex marriage does not necessitate incestuous or polygamous marriage. Furthermore, I will note that the same-sex marriage prohibition may well have been justified in the past. This exhibits the logical flaw in claiming it's impossible for there to be no rational basis for prohibiting same-sex marriage because the prohibition has existed for thousands of years.
As I noted in the last post both polygamy and incest prohibitions deal with prohibiting marriage because of the presence of another kinship relation. In the polygamy case it is the marital relation of the individual to another spouse. In the incest case it is the already existing kinship relation between the prospective couple. I believe that the new relation (and even the possibility of such relation occuring) interferes with the already existing relation. I think this is what sociologists and anthropologists refer to as role conflict but I'm no sociologist. In any case, I will explain in more detail below about ways this conflict in roles creates problems. First, however, I will note that the legal marital roles used to be distinctly defined by gender. Likewise a person's role in society used to be legally defined by gender. Thus a huge conflict could have arisen from the preson of one gender taking on the legal role of another. That problem no longer occurs today for two reasons. In many states, including Massachusetts, the legal role of husband and wife is no longer distinct. A few laws on the books may be gendered, but in all likelihood such laws would be required to be read gender neutrally should they be challenged. Likewise, the legal role in society is no longer gender determined. I'm not saying there are no differences between men and women, but rather there are no legal rights or obligations in the commonwealth of Massachusetts that apply to only one sex. (At the Federal level a few remain. For example, men must register with selective service.)
So what specific role conflicts emerge from allowing polgyamy or incestuous marriage? Foremost is the legal right of a married couple to have sexual relations conflicting with the legal prohibitions of adultery and incest. Until recently legal prohibitions on homosexual relations would have caused a conflict, but such prohibitions no longer exist. Some may argue that this is just evading the question. SSM advocates have generally argued that prohibitions on homosexual relations are unjustified. Couldn't one similarly argue adultery and incest prohibitions are unjustified. The problem remains, though, one of role conflict. If sexual relations were permitted with close kin that would sexualize such relations. Siblings, for example, could no longer be as close with the knowledge that it was legally permissible for a sexual relation to develop whether or not such a relation actually develops. Similarly the knowledge that a spouse is legally permitted to develop a sexual relation with another inhibits the development of a close relationship between the married couple. I should note these harms occur for all, even those opposed to such relations. Permitting homosexuality does similarly affect the relationships between men (and those between women). The effect is not so significant, though, because unlike adultery and incest it's not interfering with the more important family relationships. It only affects general social relationships like business contacts. This might have been a problem in the past when business contacts were almost entirely between men (I believe this might explain why male homosexuality was and is viewed more harshly than female homosexuality). In today's world we are used to making social contacts with both men and women.
Other role conflicts and confusions also emerge. A person has certain obligations to care for his spouse. If he takes on a new spouse the new obligations might conflict with his old obligations. Some have argued that it would be okay if the old spouse consents. This is problematic for several reasons, though. First of all, marriage is not just a legal contract that can be modified on the whim of the parties involved. It also involves a third party, the state. The state spells out certain rights and responsibilites and only the state can waive those responsibilities. More impotantly just how is the old spouse supposed to grant this consent? Tom wants to marry Sally, so he goes to Sue to ask for permission. I think it's reasonable to assume that just asking Sue could cause some problems in their marriage. Suppose Sue doesn't want to give her consent. She risks losing her spouse if she doesn't accede. I believe this is a case where consent can't freely be given. A similar issue of consent arises with regards to incest especially parent-child. A parent exerts a great deal of authority over a child. Even when the child becomes an adult there is reason to believe consent can't be freely given. Compounded with this is the problem that if a sexual relation is allowed to eventually emerge that can affect and threathen the relationship when one is still a minor. I should note that this is not confined to family relationships. Minnesota has recently passed, and other states have followed, laws which criminilize sexual relations between patients and therapists even when consent is given.
Another issue arises with regards to polygamy. Many laws would seem to require that there be one individual spouse. For example, if sickness or death strikes one, the spouse is responsible for making certain decisions. If there are multiple spouses who makes the decision?
Finally, a word about the incest prohibitions. I've been referring to problems in role conflicts that arise when one is allowed to marry close kin. Such concerns would arise whether the relation is by blood, adoption, or even marriage. Most, but not all, current prohibitions are concerned only with relations by blood, that is consanguineal kin. Their stated concern is often genetic, although there is strong evidence that in the case of cousins the concerns are way overblown. Thus for example some states allow first cousins to marry provided they are incapable of procreation (which kind of destroys the whole same-sex marriage needs to be prohibited since same-sex couples can't procreate argument). While the concern with closer relatives might be valid, I believe there the issues I mentioned above are factors to consider as well. Thus I believe, for example, that a state should forbid the marriage of a person and his stepchildren (through a divorce or deceased spouse). Precisely which consanguineal and affinal relations should be prohibited is a question of where one draws the line with respect to kin being too close. Such line drawing is best left to the legislature and different states may, and do in fact, reach different conclusions. The situation is like that of age regulations. Once we establish that a line may be drawn based on age we defer to the legislature to determine which age. While the different regulations do occasionally lead to conflicts and confusions they have been manageable and should be a guide for how to deal with conflicting laws regarding same-sex marriage. Of course, I believe the US Constitution's 14th amendment requires same-sex marriage everywhere, but until the time that is recogized I do not buy arguments that a federal marriage amendment is needed to avoid the chaos of differing state regulations.
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